Every Relationship Has a Story.
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The Lord promises to redeem and restore what the locust have eaten. There is and can be redemption in healing yourself and your marriage to the place He intended it to be.
Imagine healing God's way
Heart transformation is real. Healing is possible. Your marriage does NOT have to end after betrayal. With God, restoration and renewal aren’t just wishful thinking—they’re His desire for you.
You can rebuild trust. You can experience a love stronger than before. You can reclaim your future in a way that honors God and brings true healing.
The question is… Are you willing to take that step of faith?
Yet they become the very place where God reveals your calling. For me, that calling is helping couples discover that betrayal does not have to be the end of their story.
Every day, I have the privilege of walking alongside husbands and wives whose lives have been turned upside down by infidelity, pornography, sexual addiction, and broken trust. I meet them in the middle of shock, grief, fear, and uncertainty, and together we begin taking one faithful step at a time toward healing. The reason I care so deeply about this work is that I understand it in a way that can't be learned from a textbook.
I've experienced betrayal personally. I've also lived on both sides of broken trust. I understand the overwhelming pain of the betrayed spouse—the questions that keep you awake at night, the trauma that seems to take over your mind and body, and the fear that life will never feel safe again.
I also understand the shame, hiding, and brokenness of the spouse who caused the pain, and what it takes to pursue genuine repentance and lasting transformation. That unique perspective allows me to hold space for both spouses with compassion while never compromising truth or accountability. Because healing requires both.
meet lisa
There are some journeys you never choose
For more than two decades, I've served in ministry, coaching, leadership, and consulting. I spent 15 years traveling in a full-time itinerant ministry, had the privilege of serving as the pastoral counselor on a nationally recognized death row case, and have dedicated my life to helping people experience transformation through the power of Jesus Christ.
Today, I'm a certified Christian Life Coach, NLP Practitioner, Mental Health Coach, and a Betrayal Trauma/Infidelity Recovery Specialist. As the founder of Marriage Redesigned™ and host of the Marriage ReDesigned Podcast—a top 2% global podcast heard in more than 78 countries—I combine biblical truth, betrayal trauma research, neuroscience, and practical coaching to help couples rebuild what feels impossible.
Everything I teach is rooted in one simple belief: God heals people. Transformed people heal marriages.
I've watched Him restore hearts that felt beyond repair. I've watched couples rebuild trust after unimaginable pain. I've watched shame lose its grip and hope take its place. And I've learned that healing doesn't happen through quick fixes or behavior modification. It happens when two people surrender their hearts to the One who makes all things new.
Whether you find yourself here as the betrayed spouse, the unfaithful spouse, or a couple longing to rebuild your marriage, I want you to know this: You are not beyond hope. Your story is not over. There is a path forward. And it would be an honor to walk beside you as God begins writing your next chapter.
Beyond the Coaching Room
I'm a wife, a mom, and "GiGi" to five amazing grandchildren who keep life full of laughter. Our Shih-Poo, Keeva, is never far behind, and my mornings almost always begin with Jesus, coffee, and quiet time before the day begins.
- A few fun facts about me...
- Jesus and coffee are my favorite way to start the day.
- I'm a proud latte lover.
- Fall will always be my favorite season.
- I love podcasting and meaningful conversations.
- Yes...I have tattoos.
And I believe some of life's greatest miracles happen when ordinary people say "yes" to God's transforming work.
Our Story of Restoration
If you had met Britt and me years ago, you probably would have thought we had the perfect marriage. We certainly believed we did.
When I married the man I considered my knight in shining armor, I was convinced we were building the life we had always dreamed of. From the outside, we looked like the storybook couple. We loved one another, served together, and believed our future was secure. Or so I thought. The unimaginable happened.
In 2020, my world imploded. In a single moment, everything I believed about my marriage came crashing down when I discovered my husband had been unfaithful. There are moments in life that divide your story into "before" and "after." This was a Kairos Moment. Time stood still.
The pain is impossible to fully describe unless you've lived it yourself. The shock. The disbelief. The overwhelming grief. The questions that refuse to stop. How could this happen? Why? Was any of our marriage even real? Will I ever trust again? Will this pain ever go away?
Every part of me felt shattered. The marriage I thought was safe no longer felt safe. The future I had imagined disappeared overnight. I felt lost, confused, overwhelmed, and desperately alone. But here's something else you should know about our story… I've lived on both sides of betrayal.
That redemption changed the direction of our family. It changed our ministry. It changed our purpose.
Today, I have the incredible privilege of walking alongside couples facing the same heartbreak we once experienced. I’ve spent years helping marriages move from crisis to healing through a Christ-centered process that combines biblical truth, betrayal trauma research, neuroscience, practical tools, and compassionate coaching. Everything I teach inside Marriage Redesigned™ has first been lived in our own home. We've cried these tears. We've wrestled with these questions. We've faced the hard conversations. We've rebuilt trust. We've experienced God's faithfulness. And that's why I can tell you with complete confidence, no matter how hopeless your marriage feels today, this does not have to be the end of your story.
The same God who met us in our deepest brokenness can meet you there as well. There is hope. There is healing. There is a path forward. And it would be my honor to walk beside you as God begins writing your own story of redemption.
Long before I experienced the devastation of being betrayed, I also knew what it felt like to be the one who broke trust. I understand the shame, the hiding, the fear of being fully known, and the desperate longing to become someone different. I was this person at 25.
That's why I have compassion for both spouses. I understand the trauma of the betrayed. And I understand the brokenness of the betrayer. I've walked in both pairs of shoes. When our marriage reached its breaking point, I knew I had a choice. I could allow betrayal to define the rest of my life… Or I could allow God to transform it.
It took a year of separation, filing for divorce, and arriving at the place of hopelessness before the shift happened. We chose healing. Not quick fixes. Not pretending everything was okay. Not simply trying to "save our marriage." We surrendered ourselves to the work God wanted to do inside each of us. Because we discovered something that has become the foundation of everything I teach today: God heals people. Transformed people heal marriages. Our greatest need wasn't simply a better marriage. It was transformed hearts.
As God healed us individually, He began restoring what betrayal had broken. Trust was rebuilt one decision at a time. Safety was created one conversation at a time. Connection returned one act of humility at a time. Our marriage wasn't simply repaired, it was completely redesigned.
Today, our marriage is stronger, healthier, more honest, and more intimate than either of us thought possible. Not because we are perfect, but because we have experienced the redeeming power of Jesus Christ.
