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Betrayal may be part of your story—but it doesn't have to define your future.
Whether you've experienced an affair, pornography, sexual addiction, or another form of relational betrayal, you don't have to walk this journey alone. At Marriage Redesigned™, we help Christian couples move from chaos and crisis to safety, stability, trust, and lasting transformation.
Through Christ-centered, trauma-informed coaching, you'll receive the biblical guidance, practical tools, and proven roadmap needed to heal individually, rebuild together, and create a marriage that's stronger, healthier, and more deeply connected than you ever thought possible.
We don't simply help you recover from betrayal—we help you redesign your marriage on a foundation of truth, safety, grace, and God's transforming power.
Because God heals people. People heal marriages.
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Clarissa
Lisa was the angel I needed in my moments of distress. My husband and I had been married for 16 years. Much like others, her calming voice was the reassurance I needed that this wasn’t going to kill me! I reached out to her within 2-3 weeks of Dday. I was so scared and vulnerable. Living my life as a secure, confident, professional woman, this season was a major shot to my confidence. It’s been 14 months since Dday. With Lisa’s help both individually for my husband and I AND in couples sessions (we dove in deep) our relationship is unrecognizable. Lisa helped us diagnose and change cycles of unhealthy communication we had been struggling with for years. We still have our struggles and some days the pain still stuns me. But I have SEEN the redemption.
I have SEEN the redemption
M. Thomas
I just want to thank you for the way in which you’ve stepped into my story and mess & have chosen to walk alongside supporting me through these last 7 -8 months. It’s crazy how God can be crystal clear sometimes, as my morning and evening devotional were both about drawing and setting healthy boundaries. I’m continuing to pray and meditate on them as well as who I want to become, what I need and what I desire my marriage to be. Thank you again for speaking biblical truth into my life and over my marriage.
Working with Lisa was such a blessing
Colyn
Back in September of 2022, I began walking through the fire after being told by my husband that he wanted a divorce. I later found out that he had been having an affair. Nothing comes close to describing the pain and trauma that comes along with betrayal. I started listening to the “Marriage Redesigned” podcasts on my way to and from work each day. I came to know the name of the precious lady who hosted the podcast. I found her on Instagram and sent her a message. To my disbelief, she replied with a personal voice recorded message. I could not believe what I was hearing as she offered to coach and guide me in my healing. Tears overcame me. There is no doubt in my mind that the Lord orchestrated me stumbling upon her podcasts. He knew how much I needed her in my life. If you are reading this and you are hurting or questioning whether or not you should take the leap, I beg you, do it.
Do it for yourself, for your family and your friends. You are so worth it
1 to 1 couples coaching
A 6 Month Private Coaching Experience for Christian Couples
Marriage Redesigned™ is my signature six-month coaching program for Christian couples who are ready to heal after infidelity, pornography, sexual betrayal, emotional affairs, or other forms of broken trust. This is far more than marriage coaching. It's a Christ-centered, trauma-informed process that helps each spouse experience personal healing while rebuilding the marriage together.
Through private coaching, biblical truth, practical tools, and proven strategies rooted in neuroscience and betrayal trauma recovery, I'll walk alongside you as you create safety, rebuild trust, restore connection, and begin designing a marriage that's stronger than the one you had before.
Every couple's journey is different, which is why every coaching session is tailored to your unique story and where you are today. Together, we'll move through a clear step-by-step framework that brings stability to the chaos, helps both of you heal, and equips you with the tools to build lasting change.
If you're both willing to do the work, there is hope. Because I believe with all my heart that God still restores marriages. He heals hearts, rebuilds trust, and creates something beautiful from what once felt broken.
Healing begins with people. And when people heal, marriages can be redesigned.
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A PRIVATE TWO DAY MARRIAGE INTENSIVE
Sometimes your marriage needs more than an hour a week.
It needs time to slow down, step away from the distractions of everyday life, and focus completely on what matters most—your relationship.
The Marriage Redesigned™ Reboot is a private two-day intensive for Christian couples who are ready to make meaningful progress in a short amount of time. Whether you're healing after betrayal, navigating years of conflict, feeling emotionally disconnected, or simply longing for a healthier marriage, this personalized experience is designed to help you reconnect, rebuild, and move forward with hope.
Over two focused days, we'll uncover what's keeping your marriage stuck, strengthen communication, restore emotional safety, and create a clear, Christ-centered roadmap for the future. Every conversation is tailored to your unique story, giving you practical tools, biblical wisdom, and personalized coaching that continues long after the intensive ends.
This isn't a retreat filled with lectures or a one-size-fits-all program.
It's an immersive coaching experience devoted entirely to your marriage.
If you're ready to stop surviving and start intentionally rebuilding, the Marriage Redesigned™ Reboot offers the space, guidance, and support to help you begin again. Because I believe God can restore what feels broken and help you build a marriage that's stronger, healthier, and more connected than ever before.
Reboot
The Complete Marriage Restoration Experience
A 6 MONTH PRIVATE COACHING EXPERIENCE and TWO DAY MARRIAGE REDESIGNED REBOOT INTENSIVE
Marriage Redesigned™ VIP is my most comprehensive coaching experience for Christian couples healing from infidelity, sexual betrayal, pornography, emotional affairs, or chronic relationship conflict. This exclusive program combines six months of private coaching with our two-day Marriage Redesigned™ Reboot Intensive, giving you the personalized guidance, practical tools, and focused support needed to move from crisis to true restoration.
Together, we'll help you create emotional safety, rebuild trust, strengthen communication, heal the wounds beneath the betrayal, and develop a clear vision for the marriage God is calling you to build. The two-day intensive allows us to accomplish in focused, uninterrupted time what often takes months to uncover in traditional weekly sessions, creating momentum that continues throughout your coaching journey.
Grounded in biblical truth, informed by betrayal trauma recovery and neuroscience, every step of this experience is tailored to your unique story. You'll receive a proven healing framework, private coaching, practical resources, ongoing accountability, and compassionate support as you rebuild your lives—and your marriage—from the inside out.
I don't believe your goal should be getting back to the marriage you once had. I believe God invites you to build something even stronger. A marriage marked by honesty instead of secrets, peace instead of chaos, and connection instead of distance.
If you're both ready to fully invest in your healing and your future together, I'd be honored to walk beside you every step of the way.
COMMON QUESTIONS
Yes! We've witnessed marriages that looked completely hopeless become stronger than they were before the betrayal. Healing isn't about pretending the affair never happened or simply "moving on." It's about creating something entirely new—a marriage built on honesty, emotional safety, trust, humility, and Christ-centered transformation.
Healing is possible when both spouses are willing to do the work.
Healing can absolutely begin with one person. If your spouse isn't ready, we encourage the willing spouse to begin their own healing journey. Often, when one person begins changing in healthy ways, it creates space for the other spouse to eventually engage.
If your goal is rebuilding the marriage together, both spouses will eventually need to participate.
Our coaching follows a proven healing framework that addresses:
- Betrayal trauma
- Emotional safety
- Nervous system regulation
- Boundaries
- Transparency
- Character transformation
- Trust rebuilding
- Relationship restoration
- Biblical healing
Our philosophy is simple: God heals people. Transformed People heal marriages.
Many of our clients participate in both therapy and coaching.
- Infidelity
- Emotional affairs
- Physical affairs
- Pornography
- Sexual addiction
- Online relationships
- Secret sexual behaviors
- Hidden finances connected to sexual behavior
- Repeated dishonesty
- Broken trust
Our Marriage ReDesigned™ Reboot Intensive is held in person in South Carolina.
During this conversation we'll discuss your current situation, answer your questions, determine whether Marriage Redesigned™ is the right fit, and recommend the best path forward for your unique circumstances.
